Widowed at 49 and now 58

Discussion in 'Dating Again After the Loss of a Spouse/Partner' started by Teresa101, Dec 6, 2018.

  1. Teresa101

    Teresa101 Member

    I still have not dated. I could only dream of a man like my husband after 29 years and 5 kids . He died 13 months after my 15 year old daughter was killed. She was our youngest. I have no desire to move on. My other kids think I'm depressed .
  2. Ralph Smith

    Ralph Smith Member

    Losing a child has got to be the worst. And then losing a spouse a year later has got to be devastating. I lost my wife in Nov. 2014. I have no desire to date again either. I am so tired of people telling me that I should find somebody so I am not alone. Maybe I want to be alone. I could never find another one like Michelle. She was my soulmate. Everyone has someone that is perfect for them in this world. I was lucky enough to find mine. No one will ever measure up to her. I will always be comparing that person to her and that is not fair to them. Good luck and God bless.