Cindi, Robin, Christine, and Nija good job of supporting one another. The loneliness is not describable in its depth. The nights of insomnia and ongoing memory. Some of you with physical illness and pain I hope find relief. The pain of loss is enough. Same on the possessions. Thier things they chose we keep either stored or as is. I have one voice message and thankfully many photos. Her jewelry is so much her presence. The motivation to even move was for some time stunningly paralyzing. That one has let up. The fog is less and clearing. This site does connect and I can see that by reading your posts. Dave has made many excellent contributions. A path forward will present in unexpected ways as the loss lessens so slowly. Best to you all.