So broken

Discussion in 'LGBT Loss' started by Tina H. Redden, Jun 19, 2019.

  1. Tina H. Redden

    Tina H. Redden New Member

    May 24, 2019 my mama died in my arms after a long fight with many health issues. Then on June 7 two weeks to the day I woke up to find the love of my life for the last 14 years had died in her sleep. I'm having such a hard time dealing with the loss of them both in such a short time. We all loved in this house together and now it feels so empty. I have a friend who lives here still but it's just not the same.
     
  2. griefic

    griefic Administrator Staff Member

    Tina, I am so very sorry for all that you are going through. Either one of those losses would be significant, but to have them both so near to one another can make it feel downright impossible to cope. I find so many grievers are coping more than "just" one loss and it can make it hard to know where to start, or who to turn to. Finding good support is really crucial right now and I'm so happy you are reaching out. I find commenting on existing forums brings a greater response, so if you're looking to interact with others here, that can be a tip that helps. We are here to help, so please let me know if there is any further way we can be a support. Please take care~
     
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  3. Lostmyway22

    Lostmyway22 New Member

    Hi I just lost my spouse we were together for 30yrs and now I'm here myself .its so empty its only been 2 months but its very hard being alone.