He was only 35 years old and I knew he needed help mentally, he took on a lot of responsibility by getting custody of 5 children who were his fiancé nieces and nephews. The first year they moved to her hometown in Mobile, AL, from CA, they had the 3 girls, and then this last April they got temporary custody of the 2boys, all were ages 7 and under. The youngest was 18 months. First I’d like to say that he was my only child, I tried to do everything in my power to give him the best life growing up, he had some struggles with school and was put on medications for ADD. He did better when on his medication but never liked how they made him feel. His biological father Don Sr. and I divorced before he was 3 years old. He pretty much was a absentee dad. Long story short, I remarried in 1988 when he was 4. His stepdad Tony and I raised him, and we are the ones that were always there for him. In his adult life I could tell that my son struggled with depression. I tried to get him help and he never would do anything. there are more details to this story, I also think him and his Fiancé got into an argument. I’m so distraught I don’t know what to do in this whole process. He had too much baggage of his own, like having 2 daughters he never got see, and the child support became so far in arrears, he worried how he’d ever get it caught up, and with his condition his follow through on things was not good.