Hi, I recently lost my girlfriend who was also my best friend. I don't know how to cope without her. She kept me strong, calm, focused. I was going to ask her to be my wife. we had plans for the rest of your life together and now she is gone. she was the stronger one of the two of us. She would know what to say to me to calm me down. My support network is gone, my friend is gone. my life is gone. I can't stop crying and hurting myself. I just don't know how to cope with this pain.