Susan, thank you so much for your kind words. I know you're right. I am very hard on myself. I think part of the reason is that I feel guilty that I'm still here, and miserable, when my husband would have done anything to still be here. He found something good in each and every day no matter how much pain he was in. I know he wouldn't want me to be this miserable. I want him to be proud of me. Backing up just a bit, I have to remember that I'm healing, that healing is both a physically and mentally exhausting process. I'm just so used to being my husband's caregiver 24/7, that this is the first time in years that I'm able to focus on my own needs. I hope this makes sense. I feel like I'm rambling. Thanks again. You've made me think about things in a slightly different way.
Sending you hugs, wishing you peace, all of us peace...[/QUOTE
This will be a song one day:
I WISH
Bill Lathrop (2021)
Please help me make amends and abolish all pretends,
As my new life is fledging, with just me and not you.
And I’m still slowly learning, despite my fruitless yearning, what it is I’m supposed to do.
And I shout a little louder that I’m better off without her. Even though the words I’m shouting don’t ring true.
I wish I could re-arrange, that this life could suddenly change, and a new reality would leap into view.
But I know that alas, this too will pass, and the wishes that I’m wishing won’t come true. So, I shout a little louder, knowing this is about her, and not for me or for you.
I just wish that wishes did come true.
So, what else, Dear God, am I supposed to do?
I WISH
Bill Lathrop (2021)
Please help me make amends and abolish all pretends,
As my new life is fledging, with just me and not you.
And I’m still slowly learning, despite my fruitless yearning, what it is I’m supposed to do.
And I shout a little louder that I’m better off without her. Even though the words I’m shouting don’t ring true.
I wish I could re-arrange, that this life could suddenly change, and a new reality would leap into view.
But I know that alas, this too will pass, and the wishes that I’m wishing won’t come true. So, I shout a little louder, knowing this is about her, and not for me or for you.
I just wish that wishes did come true.
So, what else, Dear God, am I supposed to do?
I WISH
Bill Lathrop (2021)
Please help me make amends and abolish all pretends,
As my new life is fledging, with just me and not you.
And I’m still slowly learning, despite my fruitless yearning, what it is I’m supposed to do.
And I shout a little louder that I’m better off without her. Even though the words I’m shouting don’t ring true.
I wish I could re-arrange, that this life could suddenly change, and a new reality would leap into view.
But I know that alas, this too will pass, and the wishes that I’m wishing won’t come true. So, I shout a little louder, knowing this is about her, and not for me or for you.
I just wish that wishes did come true.
So, what else, Dear God, am I supposed to do?
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