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I'm interrible

Discussion in 'Grief in Common Updates, Questions & Answers' started by San, Nov 26, 2018.

  1. San

    San Member

    Don't have enough space to write how I'm feeling but it's awful. I just lost my mom and on Friday, her cat. I don't know what's normal. The cat was getting me by as I feel like I still had a purpose. He was part of my family. I haven't been able to stop crying since he died. I was in terrible shape with my mom's death but loosing the cat is now devastating.
     
  2. Sciguy

    Sciguy Well-Known Member

    Sorry to hear about your mothe and then her cat. I don’t have any advice. If you are feeling that bad though, is there anyone you can talk to (friend, relative, neighbor, minister, etc)? If not, then perhaps a therapist could help.
     
  3. San

    San Member

    Thank you.
     
  4. Ray G.

    Ray G. Well-Known Member

    He)lo San,
    I am so sorry about your losses.
    I too am a lover of of pets. So it is a double loss as in your mind, mom's
    cat is/was a strong emotional
    bond to Mom as Mom really loved
    kitty and as much as you miss Mom, you had her cat to sit on ur
    lap to pet and yes, Kitty was a very
    nice warm soft pet that could ease your pain. I do understand.
     
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