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I want to share a poem my daughter sent me. Maybe Songman could put it to music?

Discussion in 'Loss of Spouse' started by cjpines, Jun 28, 2021.

  1. cjpines

    cjpines Well-Known Member

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  2. Songman

    Songman Well-Known Member

     
  3. Songman

    Songman Well-Known Member

    That is absolutely beautiful. Contact my producer Nicole Garza at info@studiopros.com. and she will explain the process.
    Those beautiful words need to be set to music.
     
  4. cjpines

    cjpines Well-Known Member

    Yes, I thought the same thing, set to music. I tear up every time I read it. I don't know who wrote it, but it's a gem.
     
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  5. Songman

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  6. Songman

    Songman Well-Known Member

    If I attempted to set the poem to music, I would have to have written permission from the author. Copyright laws protect composers, and authors. It is a beautiful poem. I wish that I had written those lovely words.
    Bill
     
  7. cjpines

    cjpines Well-Known Member

    Yes, I thought about that too. I have it framed sitting by, Jack, my husband's walnut urn.
     
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  8. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    Karen, I'm glad you chose to have Jack's
    urn in your home. I did the same for
    Linda. I picked out a lighthouse for the
    front of it, because we loved them. I also
    preferred not to have her birth & death
    dates on her "memorial", as I call it,
    because her spirit is timeless. Lou
     
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  9. cjpines

    cjpines Well-Known Member

    "HER SPIRIT IS TIMELESS", PERFECT, TRUE.
     
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  10. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    Good Thurs. morning, Karen. I realized
    today that I don't have the patience for
    reading books about grief, but I found
    great videos on You Tube: I like the
    simplicity of Counselor Carl, for example.
    Enjoyed getting together with a fellow
    widower last night at our local bar. He
    drank. I didn't. We had a good talk &
    a few laughs beyond grief. His wife died
    4 years ago, so he was compassionate.
    How are you, this am? Lou
     
  11. cjpines

    cjpines Well-Known Member

    SOMETIMES READING BOOKS MAKES ME MORE DEPRESSED. SO I'M BACKING OFF. I LIKE THE FORUM, BUT MY HAND GETS TIRED OF TYPING.

    TOOK A HERBAL PILL LAST NIGHT, SLEPT A LITTLE BETTER. HARD TO GET COMFORTABLE IN A SLING. 3 TIMES A NIGHT I'M ROAMING THE HOUSE WITH MY CAT WHO JUST LOVES ME TO BE UP, PLAY TIME FOR HIM.

    I'VE FINISHED JACKS COLLAGE, 36X27 ON A POSTER BOARD. EVERYONE WILL LOVE IT. NICE MEMORIES, BUT TEARS FOR ME AND DEPRESSION.

    I KNOW EVERYONE'S GRIEVING PROCESS IS AT DIFFERENT STAGES. LOU, DO YOU REMEMBER WHEN YOU FINALLY REALIZED THE REALITY OF LINDA'S DEATH? AS TIME GOES BY FOR ME IT STILL ISN'T REALITY. NINE MONTHS YESTERDAY.

    YOU SEEM TO BE MOVING FORWARD A BIT, NICE YOU HAVE A NEW FRIEND YOU CAN SHARE WITH.

    ARE YOU A BELIEVER? I AM BUT FIND MY FAITH LACKING.

    ITS 1030 BETTER CLOSE UP THE HOUSE, TOO MANY HOT, HOT DAYS. K
     
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  12. Van Gogh

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  13. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    I'm glad you have a cat, which isn't as
    much maintenance as a dog. Since I
    like to be outside all day, I visit Barbie,
    a widow, who's retired, but her 2 adult
    daughters run a country store. She owns
    a quiet French Bulldog, who has been
    like a service dog for me.
    When I watch the "tides roll
    in", like Otis Redding, I feel God's
    presence, but I don't attend services.
    When I went with a group to Israel,
    when I was 40, before Linda, I sat on a
    tree lined street in Jerusalem, away from
    the group, and really felt God around me.
    I recommend videos on grief, rather than
    books. Hope you get some comfort from
    them. Lou
     
  14. cjpines

    cjpines Well-Known Member

    ILL TRY THE VIDEOS, TKS. I DON'T ATTEND SERVICES EITHER. HOPE YOU'RE HAVING A GOOD DAY. K
     
  15. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    Walked to the Neck, which is usually
    lively with tourists and my friends who
    own the shops, like a bookstore, an art
    gallery, and the country store. But, it's
    dreary, with rain off & on. I wasn't
    planning on it, but I went into the local
    bar AGAIN, for a bowl of haddock ( our
    local fresh caught fish) chowder, Lucky
    thing I just drink pineapple juice, soda,
    and a lime! I really think you will feel
    better when you can get out of the
    house. Can anyone visit? I hear you
    have strict indoor masks......L
     
  16. cjpines

    cjpines Well-Known Member

    WHERE I LIVE NO MANDATORY MASKS YET. BUT IN HOSPITALS, ETC. SACRAMENTO AND YOLO COUNTIES (EAST OF SACRAMENTO )ARE MASKED.

    MY DAUGHTER LIVES ACROSS THE STREET AND DRIVES ME TO SHOPS. WITH MY LACK OF SLEEP I CANT STAY OUT LONG. YES, PEOPLE CAN VISIT, BUT IVE BEEN SO NAUSEATED I HAVEN'T INVITED.

    MY SISTER AND HUSBAND ARE COMING SUNDAY FOR A VISIT. THEY LIVE IN NEVADA STATE. 2HRS AWAY.

    IM PICTURING YOUR LITTLE SEASIDE TOWN AS YOU DESCRIBE IT. SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING OUT OF A MOVIE.

    IM IN THE GOLD RUSH AREA IN THE FOOTHILLS WHERE THERE WAS MUCH GOLD MINING.
     
  17. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    Many movies were filmed here! Do you
    remember Mermaids, with Cher as a
    single mother, & Winona Rider, as her
    daughter? Also, The Proposal, with
    Sandra Bullock & Ryan Reynolds. So
    glad your daughter lives across the
    street, & you have guests on Sun.
    Linda & I got married in Las
    Vegas, which became our honeymoon.
    L
     
  18. cjpines

    cjpines Well-Known Member

    YES, I REMEMBER THOSE MOVIES. MUST BE A VERY SPECIAL PLACE.

    MY SISTER LIVES IN CARSON CITY ABOUT 6-8 HRS FROM LV.
     
  19. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    I like Sinatra's song, Love's Been Good
    to Me. (Been a rover, never found a
    home---until now). L
     
  20. DEB321

    DEB321 Well-Known Member

    Lou,

    Thank you for the beautiful descriptions of your small seaside town. From the very first post I read where you "talked" about where you live, it brought me back to a very special town by the ocean, where I spent so many fun filled days when I was much younger. As I kept reading your posts, I knew that the town I love so much, has to be the town where you live. I knew this before you mentioned movies that had been filmed in it, but after reading that post, it just confirmed what I already knew had to be true.

    Every time you write about your small seaside town, I can picture it in my mind... I haven't been back in many years, so I'm guessing some things might have changed a bit, but from your descriptions, it sounds like in many ways, the town has been frozen in time. It is not only beautiful, but is also one of my very favorite small seaside towns! My husband and I raised our children near the water, about a two hour drive from where you now live. We felt so lucky to be able to live in such a pretty place, with farms nearby, and so close to the ocean. I have to stop here (for now). As much as I cherish all the wonderful memories that are flooding my mind, the tears are streaming down my face as I'm typing.

    I'm going to bring some old towels and sheets to an animal shelter. I love cats and dogs, especially dogs, and I think getting out of my house for awhile will be good for me.

    Sending you hugs, wishing you peace, all of us peace.
     
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