I still don't understand ..Why Me!!

Discussion in 'Coping After a Sudden Loss' started by Angelita, Aug 21, 2016.

  1. Angelita

    Angelita Member

    I lost my 2 yr old son 14 years ago!!
    He was run over by a neighbor.
    I am still after all these years having trouble with moving on with my life. I've been through divorced and my other children live happily in there new life and I'm happy for them. But my life feels lost. I want to wake up one day with purpose and motivation.
    I would love to TALK!
     
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  2. griefic

    griefic Administrator Staff Member

    Hi Angelita, thank you for being here. I'm sorry to hear of your suffering and for the terrible loss you have experienced. So few people understand how our losses effect us, and I find the more time goes by the more we are expected to move on (or worse yet, to "get over it"). These losses create a ripple effect that can impact us in every part of our life, and it is hard to move forward as we feel that our very foundation was destroyed and has never been put back together. There are no easy answers, as you know, but finding support and people who are understand is a good place to start. I'm glad you are here and I hope you find the support you need. I wish you all the best...
     
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  3. marie

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  4. marie

    marie Member

    Angelita, I am glad you reached out. I certainly empathize with you . October 8 will be 4 months since I lost my 28 year old son and I feel such built that i am so terribly destraught. Coming here to share out pain is a way of is helping and living each other. All my love Marie
     
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  5. Tara Wehry

    Tara Wehry Member

    I'm so sorry for your lost. I'm sorry it's still so hard for you. I wish there was something I could say to end your pain. There are no words to disrobe what you've been through these years
     
  6. Tara Wehry

    Tara Wehry Member

    I wish you the best to. Don't expect to get over it NOBODY should expect you to get over any death. Death changes everything about our lives and they're never the same again. I just lost my loving wonderful husband about a and a half ago. It was very sudden and unexpected my life will never be the same again because it is changed. The hardest thing in life is the death of a loved one. Especially if happens violently or or suddenly through cardiac arrest.
     
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  7. Magnolia

    Magnolia New Member

    My husband passed away March 21, 2016 unexpectedly from a heart attack, and wasnt sick. We were married 47 years. My anniversary is coming up next Wednesday. I am having a hard time adjusting. Cry alot!! Just need someone to talk to that would understand.