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Discussion in 'Coping After a Sudden Loss' started by Kris with a K, Aug 7, 2020.

  1. Joey D.

    Joey D. Member

    See you are mourning the recent loss of a close friend. My sympathies and hopes you are finding more peace now
     
  2. Chadb202

    Chadb202 Member

    Wow. Not trying to be calous.
    I can't get that loop out my head.
    The sheriff saying "I found your wife deceased in her car".
    Most devastating words of my life.
     
  3. Pinkydo

    Pinkydo New Member

    vulnerable-a word I hadn't thought of before, but that is a good word for how I feel sometimes. I thought the aloneness was the bad thing, but vulnerable is a scary place to be in for me. I have always been a very strong person, and now it is strange to feel this way sometimes. I miss him so much I don't know what to do. I really need someone to talk to that understands. I found my husband passed away in our bed one morning, and it was a suprise. I knew he was very sick with his liver cancer, but didn't expect him to go yet. I miss him so much. He was the love of my life.
     
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  4. Cyanotype

    Cyanotype Well-Known Member

     
  5. Cyanotype

    Cyanotype Well-Known Member

    Try and feel your feelings as much as possible
     
  6. JMD

    JMD Well-Known Member

    This sounds so familiar. I lost my husband 7 weeks ago. He wasn’t expected to die, he had a severe reaction to one of his lung cancer medications. I too, have always considered myself to be a strong person, could handle anything. Not this. His absence has made me feel afraid of everything. The only place I feel safe is in the apartment we stayed in while he was in treatment. So I stay there most nights. He had a way of doing things for me without me even realizing it. I miss him everyday. Posting my feelings here where others are going through the same things has helped.
     
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