So Alone

DEB, from South Carolina, is
my closest, Karen, from
California, is the first widow
to welcome me 2 years ago, and
Georgine,also from South Carolina, who became a member
recently. I'm the oldest of 3
widowers here: Gary, from
Indiana, and George, from
Illinois. Hope you will become
our 4th brother in grief. We will
help each other. Lou

 

no one here i c

 

help me i am a BIG mess

 

i would like to meet some one near me outside of phila pa.

 

Bruce, please text me this
morning. I live in the small,
seaside town of Rockport.
Massachusetts. But, I often take
bus, or train , to the nearby
city of Gloucester, America's
Oldest Seaport. I have to take
the noon bus on a gloomy,
rainy day today, but trying to
focus , & do some errands. Lou

 

hello

 

cant text no phone

 

Bruce,sorry to hear you have no
phone. You may want to
consider buying one. My
Android Smart Phone has been
my lifeline since Linda died.
My Verizon plan has unlimited
phone service & Internet.If too
expensive, you could try
Consumer Cellular, or a simple
Tracphone. Otherwise, keep
posting on GIC. and we will
reply, at different times. Lou


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anu 1 here

 

Talk to me now, Bruce. People
on Grief in Common ( GIC) want
to talk with you, but we're in
different time zones. I'm on a
bus,so this is a perfect time. I
know you're having a hard .
time getting started on this
site,but you're doing a lot
better than I did, when I
started. You were brave enough
to join us. Hope you stay, and
don't give up!! Lou,

 

hey

 

chat tommorow morn

 

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

 

nnnnnnn

 

anybody here

 

just me i c

 

Hey

 

Bruce ( "Kelso"): A suggestion:
Try to direct your comment
to an individual person, instead
of to our whole group. For example: to me,Lou, or to
George ( "eyepilot 13"). We will
reply to you quickly. Both
George and I know what it
means to be alone and depressed after the deaths of our
soulmates. Lou

 

hey u here

 

Bruce, please tell me how you
are feeling this afternoon . I
appreciate that you told me
your real first name, and that of
your wife, Terry. That was the
first step for me when Linda
died over 4 & a half years ago.
On dark days, I can't believe
she's not physically by my side.
Today is a beautiful, sunny 70
degree day here and my spirits
have been lifted. I went to a
grief counselor after Linda died,
and the counselor said I'd have
good days &bad days. She's right.
I've also been able to smile, and
even laugh, again. Hard to
believe, but you will, too, Bruce.
Have you considered seeing a
grief counselor? It worked for
me. She suggested GIC ,which has been very supportive. Lou