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Slowly, sadly slippin' away. . .

Discussion in 'Coping After a Sudden Loss' started by Ray G., Jun 30, 2019.

  1. Ray G.

    Ray G. Well-Known Member

    Yes it really seems that way,
    tho it is the last thing I want
    to happen. I want to keep on
    grieving the loss of Sofia. I do
    not want to stop thinking of
    her. I want to keep her in my
    heart and mind. I look at her
    pictures and it hurts me so
    much but in a way that I know
    Sofia was my wife and a great
    wife. I do not know if I feel
    this way because my ❤
    does not know how to deal
    with such a great loss or what.
    But I do ask Jesus many many
    times not to let me forget her.
     
  2. Goodgrief

    Goodgrief Member

    I've been feeling the same. I don't want to forget anything . That's why I am writing more. Writing down a list of memories helps . And my mama loved writing lists. Hope today is a better day for you.
     
  3. Ray G.

    Ray G. Well-Known Member

    Thankyou very much Good
    Grief. Yes I have been d
    oing
    that, writing the story of
    Sofia. Yes memories are good
    tho at times bittersweet. We

    loved the times we had but
    our love is for the most part
    gone and all we can do is to
    be gratefull for the times we
    did have together.

    I wish you well on this long
    winding uphill rocky road
    of grief.
    Ray G.
     
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  4. Ray G.

    Ray G. Well-Known Member

    Well it is a sad and weird
    feeling that last 4 of JULY
    And in 2017 we lit off fire-
    Werx..Sofia really enjoyed
    that, we both did. Things
    so far as a new life are fine
    but frankly I was much
    happier because I had a
    Dainty Dearness for a wife.
    A woman who truely loved
    me and I loved her very
    much.

    To Her brother Alex
    Panigotacos now Nicolas,
    I can only hope a sky rocket
    finds its way up your back
    side for what you have done,
    ratting out your sister to the
    hospital and everything was
    going fine till you did that.
    How are you going to justify
    what you did to Jesus?