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My other half

Discussion in 'Coping After a Sudden Loss' started by Xyzaa, Oct 8, 2018.

  1. Xyzaa

    Xyzaa Member

    I lost my best friend, only friend and other half on September 1st, 2018. It was sudden, he was only 25 years old. The pain of losing him is crippling, my soul hurts so deeply without him. Going from talking every morning to every night, the times I’d wake up in the middle of the night, and then the morning again. He helped me in so many ways and made my own demons bareable. He is gone, I am sad, angry, broken, lost and feel completely alone without him.
     
    Xyzaa, Oct 8, 2018
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  2. Sciguy

    Sciguy Well-Known Member

    Sorry to hear about your loss. It is always difficult, but even more so when it is sudden and the person is young. There is nothing anyone can say right now to make you feel better and you will never "get over it". The best we can hope for is to adapt to it. I hope you find this site helpful.
     
    Sciguy, Oct 9, 2018
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  3. Megh

    Megh New Member

    I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my partner on 5th September 2018. he was the love of my life. He was just 28 years old. We were together for 8 years. I cant say much that can help you because i am too struggling with a similar situation. You are not alone. Keep writing and sharing. Hope you and me feel better soon.
     
    Megh, Oct 17, 2018
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  4. Kerry McKendall

    Kerry McKendall Member

    So sorry for your losses! I lost my husband of nearly 50 years 2 years ago and can so relate to the sadness, anger and sense of losing everything. The grief and sense of loss doesn’t go away but you learn to cope with each day one day at a time. Sharing here and talking with others who can understand loss like yours truly helps.
     
    Kerry McKendall, Oct 17, 2018
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  5. Xyzaa

    Xyzaa Member

    Thank you, I’m sorry for your loss as well. Next week it will be two months, and these waves still hurt like no other. I’ve lost people before, and I missed little things they did or said. The hugs or their love. It’s just crazy the way I crave for him, I miss everything about him. I miss his cheesy smile, he laugh, his hands and the way they used to rub my back, his sarcasm, and running my fingers through his hair. I am just so lost, he was my only friend..
     
    Xyzaa, Oct 22, 2018
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  6. Xyzaa

    Xyzaa Member

    Thank you I am sorry for your loss as well, everyone says time will make it better and the other half says the pain will never go away. My life truly hurts without my team mate and best friend.
     
    Xyzaa, Oct 22, 2018
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