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Just lost my husband of 20 years in a car accident.

Discussion in 'Coping After a Sudden Loss' started by Haley, Jan 10, 2019.

  1. Haley

    Haley New Member

    Help please!!
     
  2. HisMrs

    HisMrs New Member

    Me too. Nov 3 2018. Tragic accident 4 cars, a horse, 2 fatalities. One was my husband of 22 years
     
  3. Haley

    Haley New Member

    So awful !! I just feel lost and alone.
     
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  4. HisMrs

    HisMrs New Member

    I know! Hardest thing I've ever been through. I wouldn't have been able to imagine this pain just 10 weeks ago. Nearly unbearable
     
  5. Haley

    Haley New Member

    I hate it. Rasing 4 kids also
     
  6. Kim Stone

    Kim Stone New Member

    I’m so sorry!! I know you’re hurting. Do you have a strong faith and use scriptures to help with comfort? Do you have any close friends you’re leaning on at this time?

     
  7. CarolC

    CarolC Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. I lost my husband of 25 years on August 7 because someone ran a stop sign. This past Friday I finally read the statement written by this person, who got out of his jeep and ran to my husbands truck, unharmed. I've had a lot of pain in my life but this is the worst.
     
  8. Karen Damron

    Karen Damron New Member

    I am so sorry i too lost the love of my life on December 2018.. He woke up went to the bathroom called to me in muffled voice found him unable to talk caĺed 911 and by11 pm that afternoòn the doctor told me he would not make it I know that when you walk into your room , you feel liķe you cant breath and your heart starts racing. I know abc i am so sorry for your loss
     
  9. Joanna!

    Joanna! Member

    I'm so sorry you feel the way you do now. You are not alone. I recently lost my husband, and I don't know how to be without him. There is not a time where he is not on my mind. I feel like my purpose for living is gone. To say I miss him is a gross understatement. I thought we would grow old together, and now I'm alone.
     
  10. Joanna!

    Joanna! Member

    If you ever need to talk, I'm here. Sometimes I feel like my family is tired of hearing me say I miss my husband. I can't even put into words how much I miss him.