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Anticipatory Loss

Discussion in 'Loss of Adult Child' started by Beth.John, Jul 19, 2025.

  1. Beth.John

    Beth.John New Member

    I am new here. I am a wife, mother, grandmother and work full-time. My 46 year old daughter has been diagnosed with stage 4 terminal pancreatic cancer. They gave her 6 months if the chemo didn't work. So far it has been 18 months and she has lost a great deal of weight and is very tired. While she is still with us, I see her failing. She has 7 year old twin girls that she will leave behind. I try my best to do as much as I can to help and support her. Recently I have been dealing with my own health issues and feel very guilty taking care of myself. Every night I pray for more time, less pain and some quality of life for her. What else can I do?