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Double losses

Discussion in 'Dealing With Multiple Losses' started by DoubleLosses, Jan 11, 2026.

  1. DoubleLosses

    DoubleLosses New Member

    Hello im new here! I lost my fiance suddenly in hospital due to stage 4 cancer. 11 days before his passing i lost my one and only family member, which was my grandmother. I dont have family, I dont have much friends. Im pretty much alone. My finance family is kicking me out the house and want me to move out by end of the month. But I don't even have a place to stay. Life is so cruel right now. The only 2 people I had are now gone. No one will ever love me the way he loved me. Im so lost without him. He passed 1/1/26. Please help me guys. Im so lost. Every time I close my eyes I see and hear how he tragically passed away in front of me. They tried to do cpr but when they got a faint pulse, he pretty passed away on life support. Cpr gives brain damage. Please help me please.
     
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  2. Lisakay3

    Lisakay3 New Member

     
  3. Lisakay3

    Lisakay3 New Member

    Hi I feel your pain. My mother and I were in a car accident on April 15th 2025 and she passed away and 2 weeks later on May 3rd my only brother passed away of heart failure. We all lived in the same home together and now my house is just empty. I have a few friends but none of them can understand what I'm going through nor help me with what I'm doing with really. I also feel like no one will ever love me like my brother and mother did and I feel like no one will have my back like they did. I miss him so much in this house is so quiet without them I feel like I'm at a standstill and I don't know what to do. I would love to take you that after a year on most of the year that has gotten easier but it hasn't.
     
  4. DoubleLosses

    DoubleLosses New Member



    Im sooooo sorry to hear that. I just got a pet. It doesnt help much but the love it provided is 5% helpful. Most of all it just keeps you busy. Im sorry for your loss and emptiness. I feel the same way about my finance. No one will have my back or love me the way he did.
     
  5. Kjmf

    Kjmf New Member

    I see this was awhile ago are you okay?
     
  6. DoubleLosses

    DoubleLosses New Member

    No. Im not okay. How can I be okay
     
  7. Lisakay3

    Lisakay3 New Member

    I feel like I'm stuck and can't get out of this rut. My mother was my best friend as he was yours I'm sure. My pet has helped me a lot he was part of our family so it feels like I still have a piece of them with me. I hope your new pet brings you so.e comfort.
     
  8. DoubleLosses

    DoubleLosses New Member

    Thank you